(Sep 17, 2006)
Spent part of my afternoon advising and giving all sorts of different rationales to Tara regarding certain matters.
It's always easy to advise and talk to my friends but I'd never be able to relate the advises to myself. It was never easy.
See, in life where you could have solve everything by yourself but you just want someone to be there to advise you, to comfort you whereby it wasn't neccessary because, at the end of the day, it's still up to one self.
Often in arguments, people would explain till they run out of breathe BUT, that's in the past. Nowadays, people are changing. In arguements, people stop explaining. How do they stop the argument? Easy. They simply severe ties with one another. They might say it's the "easy-way-out-solution" but hell no. To me, it's just the "lazy-way-out" whereby both/more parties do not need to waste their breathe and explain. But, but, but, the Lazy-way-out solution is also being branched out to 2 different catergories.
1) End off everything; severe all ties
2) Apologise (even though it's not your fault) and act nothing has happened
But is the Lazy-way-out a good solution? Personally, I don't think so.
But sometimes, I get so tired explaining and I just want to go for the "lazy-way-out" solution. For the past few times I used it, I lost another friend.
It may be a good solution if both/more parties are mutual friends who knows one another and how the person's system works like.
I think this is drifting away from topic.
To this particular someone who may never chance onto this blog that,
in that friendship, you, being the girl had being dependent on the guy that's why when you realised that he's attached, you feel that a part of you is missing. How should I put it? Hmm. Let's say you feel jealous that the gf WOULD take up more of his time and you're left with nothing. It's like girls are more prone to jealousy, isn't it? I'm so sure there's a better solution than severing ties with YOU and YOUR best friend.
It's always easy to advise and talk to my friends but I'd never be able to relate the advises to myself. It was never easy.
See, in life where you could have solve everything by yourself but you just want someone to be there to advise you, to comfort you whereby it wasn't neccessary because, at the end of the day, it's still up to one self.
Often in arguments, people would explain till they run out of breathe BUT, that's in the past. Nowadays, people are changing. In arguements, people stop explaining. How do they stop the argument? Easy. They simply severe ties with one another. They might say it's the "easy-way-out-solution" but hell no. To me, it's just the "lazy-way-out" whereby both/more parties do not need to waste their breathe and explain. But, but, but, the Lazy-way-out solution is also being branched out to 2 different catergories.
1) End off everything; severe all ties
2) Apologise (even though it's not your fault) and act nothing has happened
But is the Lazy-way-out a good solution? Personally, I don't think so.
But sometimes, I get so tired explaining and I just want to go for the "lazy-way-out" solution. For the past few times I used it, I lost another friend.
It may be a good solution if both/more parties are mutual friends who knows one another and how the person's system works like.
I think this is drifting away from topic.
To this particular someone who may never chance onto this blog that,
in that friendship, you, being the girl had being dependent on the guy that's why when you realised that he's attached, you feel that a part of you is missing. How should I put it? Hmm. Let's say you feel jealous that the gf WOULD take up more of his time and you're left with nothing. It's like girls are more prone to jealousy, isn't it? I'm so sure there's a better solution than severing ties with YOU and YOUR best friend.